Signs I Need Couples Therapy or
Marriage Counseling
Signs You May Need Couples Therapy:
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Lack of physical or emotional intimacy
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You suspect or know there's been infidelity
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Drifting apart
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Frequent and unresolved arguments
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Poor communication
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Hostile language, yelling, name calling
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Frequent avoidance to discuss ongoing issues
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Feel overly criticized or put down
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You feel stuck in unhealthy patterns
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Walking on eggshells
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You feel lonely
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Excessive jealousy
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Controlling behaviors
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Dishonesty
What Research Says
About Successful Couples:
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“Failure to repair the inevitable conflicts and disconnection that all couples face “is the leading cause of unhappy couples and relationship failure.” (Dr. John Gottman, PhD.)
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You can predict the healthiness of a relationship based on the “ratio of positive-to-negative emotions expressed during a conflict."
Can Couples Counseling
Help Us?
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YES-“Clients reported marked improvement in work productivity, co-worker relationships, family relationships, partner relationships, emotional health, overall health, social life, and community involvement.” (AAMFT)
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Over 75% report an improvement in their relationship after participating in Couples Therapy with a Marriage & Family Therapist-MFT
CREATIVE
COUNSELING & CONSULTING SANTA BARBARA
Lisa Conn Akoni, MA, MFT
Marriage & Family Therapist,
Clinical Program Developer, Consultant,
Trainer & Supervisor